THE TRUST BUT VERIFY GUIDES

Real stories. Practical ways to check.

Follow the evidence behind real cases. Learn what you can check, what the findings mean, and what questions remain.

Behind the headlines

Documented cases, with timelines and links to the original reporting.

DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

Sam Nordquist: the return journey he never made

Sam Nordquist travelled to meet a woman he knew online. The planned return trip, a message read in court and two September 2026 life sentences.

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CATFISHING & FRAUD · REAL STORY

Christopher Harkins and the holidays that were never booked

Christopher Harkins collected money for holidays he never booked. The false banking problems, financial losses and 2024 court outcome.

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DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

Sydney Loofe: the evidence behind the Audrey profile

Sydney Loofe's Tinder messages became evidence after she disappeared. A friend's search and phone records helped expose the person behind Audrey.

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CATFISHING & FRAUD · REAL STORY

The "police recruit" who never moved to Dunedin

An 18-year online romance cost a Dunedin man more than NZ$525,000. The false identity, guilty plea and sentencing still to come.

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CATFISHING & FRAUD · REAL STORY

The invented “Jad” and the grandparents demanding money

A dating profile and its supposed grandparents were one man's invention. The Glenn Boyd catfishing case and the September 2026 resentencing ruling.

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DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

Ashley Wadsworth: the reassuring messages sent after her death

Ashley Wadsworth's friends received pleas for help, followed by reassurance. Investigators found the later messages were sent after her death.

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CATFISHING & FRAUD · REAL STORY

Thomas Godden: the romance that came with a repayment promise

Thomas Godden used dating apps and repayment promises to defraud three men. How messages exposed the deception, and what the official accounts confirm.

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DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

The “Derek” messages: how two San Antonio murders were connected

Messages to an account called Derek helped investigators connect two San Antonio murders. The evidence and Jer Auntey Pleasant's 2026 sentencing.

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CATFISHING · REAL STORY

Adele Rennie: when the voice was part of the lie

A voice-changing app and a supposed friend supported Adele Rennie’s false identity. The evidence, sentence and later breach of a court order.

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DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

Priscilla Castro: a dating-app murder and the fire that killed two more

Priscilla Castro went on a dating-app date in 2020. Her murder and a fire that killed two other people led to a 2025 sentence of 73 years to life.

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CATFISHING · REAL STORY

Sweet Bobby: the boyfriend behind a whole world of lies

How Kirat Assi uncovered an elaborate catfishing deception involving her cousin, invented contacts and the identity of a real man.

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ROMANCE FRAUD · REAL STORY

The fake Brad Pitt romance and the €830,000 loss

A reported romance scam used an impersonated celebrity, AI-generated hospital pictures and a medical emergency to persuade a French woman to send money.

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DATING & CRIME · REAL STORY

Grace Millane: the Tinder date reconstructed in court

The documented timeline of Grace Millane’s murder in Auckland, the evidence considered by the courts, and Jesse Kempson’s conviction and sentence.

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